As I get older, I am beginning to realize that the celebrities I loved as a child are getting older, as well. They won’t last forever.
I never really grasped the concept, as some of my favorite actors and singers passed away either before my time or before I became a fan. The world lost Marilyn in 1962, well before my time. A similar and equally devastating situation occurred the next year in Dallas when JFK was killed. What must have been the crushing demise of Elvis happened when I was 2 years old. The icons of my parents’ time have been slipping away for many years.
Now, it’s my turn to mourn the death of certain people whom I may not have known, but nevertheless loved fiercely. I regret I did not know any of them personally.
David Bowie – January 11
What a strange cat this guy was. However, any child of the ’80s knows his smooth, deep, voice, weird lyrics, and interesting look. By the ’80s, he had toned down the appearance some, but still had time to make some unintentionally (I think) homoerotic music like his duet with Mick Jagger, “Dancing in the Street”. I choose to remember him for “China Girl” and “Space Oddity”, but there’s no disputing that at least he’ll be remembered.
Alan Rickman – January 14
Oh, Mr. Rickman, you had no shortage of roles that made excellent movies even better. Hans Gruber. Severus Snape. Harry in Love Actually. The Metatron in Dogma. Alexander Dane in Galaxy Quest. He played many kinds of characters, most having some type of attitude problem.
The beauty of Alan Rickman can be found in any of his roles, but most of us became acquainted with him in Die Hard (pictured). He could pull off the most intelligent dialogue with his typically snarky British accent, then give a smile and get whatever he wanted. That is, when he wasn’t falling off of buildings. RIP, Mr. Rickman.
George Gaynes – February 15
You may not know him by name, but you certainly know him by face. As Commandant Lassard in the Police Academy series, everyone knew and loved George Gaynes. In addition, since I had a spectacular enduring crush on Punky Brewster, the fact that he played her adoptive father added to his personal appeal.
Unlike some of the other names on this list we may feel were taken from us too soon, Mr. Gaynes passed away at age 98. RIP, Commandant.
Prince – April 21
Before he was the Androgynous One or The Symbol, Prince was a stud. His voice was sultry, his lyrics were naughty, and his dancing was provocative. All good things for a pre-teen trying to figure all that stuff out.
Of course, Purple Rain was an emotional and memorable movie, but his music was the key to his fame. Think of your 5 favorite Prince songs, and I bet not only will you be disappointed to leave some songs off your list, but you’ll have a situation or person in mind when the song comes on the radio. For me, the video for “Kiss” was one of the hottest videos I had ever seen. Hilary Swank singing “Gett Off” in P.S. I Love You was smoking, and I can recall how shocked I was when I learned the lyrics to “My Darling Nikki”. Unfortunately, at age 57, I don’t think he was done yet. Thanks, Mr. Nelson.
David Huddleston – August 2
As a kid, one of my favorite Christmas movies was the 1985 classic Santa Claus: The Movie. Anyone who plays a legitimate Santa Claus (so, not Billy Bob Thornton) has to have a special characteristic to inspire hope, love, and giving. Huddleston’s Santa was very special to me then, and it still is. Many Christmas movies these days are comedies (or Die Hard), so it takes a spectacular movie to be so memorable as a fantasy.
Huddleston had been around for a long time before this movie, and played in many movies afterward. If you’ve never seen his Santa Claus, perhaps you know him as the wheelchair-bound Jeffrey Lebowski, as known as The Big Lebowski. Not to be confused with “The Dude”. Finding out much later this was the same guy as Santa Claus actually fractured my brain, I believe. So regardless of how you know him, he will be remembered.
Gene Wilder – August 29
Born Jerome Silberman in 1933 (in my home state of Wisconsin, by the way), the boy who grew to become Gene Wilder primarily became an actor because he was tasked to keep his mother happy after she took ill in 1941.
Thirty years later, Gene was offered a role that became arguably his most famous – Willy Wonka. Although he starred in other popular early movies like Blazing Saddles and Young Frankenstein, I happened to enjoy his later films, such as Haunted Honeymoon and See No Evil, Hear No Evil. As his screen career tapered off, he appeared on a few TV shows, and eventually retired in favor of artistic endeavors and philanthropic pursuits. Thank you for your Pure Imagination, Mr. Wonka.
George Michael – December 25
I’m not sure how this man reinvented himself from this:
To this:
In just a couple of years, George Michael went from a silly bubble gum pop singer to a breathy, grunting semi-sex god whose ass populated roughly 96% of his music videos. Despite rumors flying around, chicks loved him. He helped make the ’80s music scene what it was; since I’m a huge ’80s music fan, I’m a fan of his.
In the days after his passing, several different charities and organizations felt the need to let the public know what kind of guy he really was, despite some of his run-ins with the law. As it turns out, he secretly donated millions and a serious amount of time to plenty of worthwhile causes. Kudos, George.
Carrie Fisher – December 27
Her mother was Debbie Reynolds (who passed away hours after this article was written); her stepmother was Liz Taylor. It seems inevitable that Carrie would become an actress. At the age of 20, she would become as famous to her generation as Debbie and Liz were to theirs by starring in a little flick called Star Wars.
Over the years, she would go on to act in plenty of other shows and movies, most of which you would exclaim “Whoa…isn’t that Princess Leia?” when she showed up onscreen. Many actors have lamented that once you’ve played a character so iconic, you may not be known as anything else. However, a role that large often cements your place in the hearts of many. As a result, Carrie Fisher will truly be missed by many, including me.
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Honorable mention to these celebrities whom I enjoyed for a specific role or a great story, even if they were not favorites of mine with lasting impressions:
- Garry Shandling
- Joey Feek, country singer of Joey + Rory fame
- Nancy Reagan
- Merle Haggard
- Doris Roberts, from Everybody Loves Raymond and Grandma’s Boy
- Muhammad Ali
- Alexis Arquette, who played George in The Wedding Singer
- Jose Fernandez, Florida Marlins pitcher
- Florence Henderson
- Alan Thicke
If one of your favorite celebrities passed away this year, I apologize for the loss you feel. If he or she is not mentioned in this article, that celebrity didn’t leave much of a mark on my life, but you may have a different story to tell. If so, feel free to share it with me.
Thanks for reading! I appreciate your time, and encourage your feedback. Perhaps I’ll hear from you soon.